It's just a simple words which i love to say as affirmative, coz i lack it. So today i went to my dentist (i should went there months ago, but i just too busy *lazy till today), it's rainy day and i thought because it is raining, there'll be no other patient except me? (who's gonna bother went to dentist when it's raining). And that's true, i just the first and only patient there when i arrive... feels so lucky.
I came at 07.15 PM and i do believe it finished at 07.30 PM, but it started to rain very hard and then we just talking about anything. And i asked, wonder how did she ended as a dentist? She said that when she was high school girl, she really didn't expect to be a dentist. She want to be an architect that time, but she looked at her friends and feels little scare than she turn down her wish as an architect. And at that time, her mom just wished her to be a doctor. So she decided to be a doctor. But because she knew her rivals were great students, she decided to choose the second option which is "a doctor of tooth (dentist)" or "a doctor of animal (veterinarian)". And finally she accepted in dentist major. Well actually she signed up for other major at others university which was economic major, but didn't accepted even though she sure enough that she answered the test easily than the doctor's test. We can see that Parent's prayer does really work like a charm, which is looks like it happened in me too.
And then she talked about her daughter, her first baby is a girl. Her daughter was a passive and shy girl since she was a little. And when she was 5 until elementary school, she was always being bullied by her friends. Like when she tried to approach her friends, her friends scattered away from her. She ever leaved alone at the garden, while her friends used her bicycle away from her. I couldn't imagine such a kid ever felt something like this, waw!!
I remembered when i was 5, i was pushed by my teacher to apologize to my friend who crying because i angry with her since she bully my friend. hahaha... *i even can't remind it how did that happened and why did that happened. And when i was at elementary school i remember i punched my friend *boy on her face just because he bullied me when i played a "win and lose" game with my friend till he cry!! Man, i know i just so ... hmmm.... even i can't name it...
So, back to topic. Her daughter named Gita, finally had a chance to change because of her teacher at elementary school choose her to be a MC at separation party. We ended our elementary school at sixth grade, and usually we would when together as class to celebrate separation at other city. Her teacher was my courses teacher when i was 6th grade too.
Her mom always told her to be brave and to have a achievement, because friends will come when we achieve something and no one will bully us when we are brave.
So when she went home that day and told her mom about she was being picked up to be a MC for the separation party, her mom give her a planning about what should she said at the separation party *as MC of course. And she told me that it was a great success till her teacher feels so proud of her and hug her. WAW!!
And since that she became a friendly, active person and even she is a presenter radio and local television now! Waw.. Mrs Ferry told me about her daughter feeing that time, she said that "i know mom when my teacher picked me in front of the class as a MC, my friends just agreed it to bully me. But i know that i can do it, i want to show it to them."
Love it, i just felt that i learnt a lots today. To review my self and correct it, since i know i need to be more confident and brave than i am today. And she told me one thing that she proud of her daughter is that because her daughter never see a negative at a person, she choose to prove to others that what (bad things) they said to her is wrong, and she could do better.
Reminds me the quote i love, "I know you are better than this!" *Puss in boots
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